A Note From The Author

I have walked with many parents and grandparents who have struggled with a life-threatening illness and death. I have heard their desire to stay positive and hopeful as they plead for healing. Many feel that talking about death would somehow be a sign of weakness or a signal of "giving up the battle."

I have also walked with hundreds of children who have experienced the serious illness and death of a parent, sibling or grandparent. Many have described pain and resentment regarding ways in which information and preparation were withheld from them.

The fear of death often tempts us to focus exclusively on a cure rather than preparing for the possibility of death. It seems easier to avoid the subject rather than face some difficult and emotional conversations. However, most children cope much better with painful experiences if they are given honest information and preparation rather than protection from the pain.

Please consider learning about the needs of your children regardless of the prognosis of the illness at this point. Your children will benefit from the information provided in this book whether the illness is cured or your family is forced to face the end of a loved one's life.

God bless you as you travel this journey,

Kathy Nussbaum